oh yeah, and also...

Thanks to my friends who have given me some additional suggestions for what I should look for in a man:

• ability to do their own laundry
• can cook more than using the microwave to heat a meal
• notices that they have dragged mud all over the kitchen floor
• looks at people in the eye when talking to them
• wears matching shoes
• believes that there is good in the world
• loves holidays
• is willing to hold my hand when we are on a plane
• thinks it is endearing that I still get scared during thunderstorms
• inherently knows to turn the music down in the car when it is raining hard
• when a light bulb goes out, changes the bulb without having to be asked
  
• unconditionally loves me, my daughter and my dog